Now load a dummy round with the same bullet, make it about .025" longer than that measurement. Remove the firing pin if you can and gently close the bolt. If the bullet sticks in the bore, remove and seat it at .020" OAL. Rub the dummy bullet with 0000 steel wool; reset it and try again. Now examine the bullet. If possible, use a loupe or magnifier and You should see faintly a square mark where the bullet touched the lands. Lower the seater die by .005" and repeat until the square mark disappears. You will have found the point of contact to begin seating. Write it down. Re-check it periodically to determine when the throat has begun to erode, and repeat it again.