The brass didn't flow into the ejector because of lube or oil in the chamber meaning additional bolt thrust. The brass flowed into the ejector due to high chamber pressure that exceeded the strength of the brass and extruded the brass into the ejector hole.
I could lube the cases of my 30-30 and shoot them all day long and the brass would not flow because the chamber pressure is only 38,000 cup or 42,000 psi and not high enough to cause the brass to flow.
Lubing a case or having oil in the chamber doubles the bolt thrust but does not increase chamber pressure unless the oil or lube is forced into the bore.
Just one of the reasons military chambers have longer headspace is because it reduces bolt thrust because the case stretches to meet the bolt face and acts like a shock absorber. This reduces the bolt thrust and the dwell time the base of the case is in contact with the bolt face.
The brass flowed into the ejector for the same reason the unsupported base of the case flows outward in the example below.
Military brass is made harder in the base to better withstand higher pressures caused by combat conditions like water in the chamber and bore. CatShooter in a post here measured the rockwell hardness of .223/5.56 cases with Lake City being the hardest and Remington being the softest. Lapua brass was the second hardest and if the OP had used Remington cases his brass flow into the ejector would have been more pronounced.
Just one of the many causes of the M16 jamming problem was soft brass and then mil-spec standards were set for all commercial contract military cartridges.
Below internal case capacity effects chamber pressure, the two charts below show .223/5.56 cases with the top chart being Lake City with the most internal capacity. Both cases have the same identical charge of H335 but the lower chart shows a case with 1.8 grains of H2O of less capacity and 6,000 psi higher chamber pressure.
Bottom line, if the brass flows into the ejector you have exceeded the structural strength of the brass and need to back off the load. And if brass flows into the ejector with Lake City or Lapua brass the pressure is higher than you think.
You could try soaking the brass in Viagra, but if the brass stays hard for over four hours you must call a gunsmith. :
