The guys are right about several things.
One being the new barrel. Once it gets about 300 rounds on it, or at least 200 it will speed up somewhat. Probably 50, maybe as much as 100 fps.
Yours being a lapped Kreiger, that number may differ a bit.
I think I'd work around the 40.6 load for a bit to see how wide that node is, and even if it'll repeat. It may not.
Second, you're going to end up doing this process all over again for the match bullets you want to use. Using the Ballistic Tips will get your barrel broken in and somewhat "settled", but keep in mind the 6.5 doesn't have stellar barrel life. Probably 3000 rounds with a moderate load for match accuracy. That number will decrease considerably if it's pushed hard.
I used Sierra 123 match kings in my 6.5 CM for a couple years at about 2930 if I remember right, they're good bullets. Last time I checked, Hirsch Precision in NS had lots of them left. They ship.
I switched to the Lapua 139 Scenar a couple years ago for a better bullet in the wind. It's a bit better, but not head and shoulders better.
I'm using 40.1 of H4350 under a 139 Scenar. I get about 2710 fps from a 24" barrel. Brass lasts a long time if you anneal, and so does the barrel. Accuracy is good. It has about 2000 rounds through it at this point.
I try playing with seat depth in 5 thou increments, any larger and I might miss the sweet spot. The 139 Lapuas work best about 15 thou off the lands in my rifle. I start at 20 thou off and work in both directions. If your load is hot to begin with, be careful with close to the lands or seated deeply in the case. Both will increase pressure.
Nothing wrong with Sierra bullets if you can get them. Berger makes a good bullet but in my experience the Sierras are no slouches.
Noslers are largely made of unobtainium in Canada these days, and expensive when you DO find them.
Once I think I've got a load ironed out, I load a dozen rounds and fire them into one group and see what it looks like. Based on 2 sighters and 10 on score in an F-class match. If I can live with the results, I go with it until something changes.
Just my opinions, as usual.