Putting aside the fact that we cannot feel posters' bolt lifts, and that no pictures of fired primers have been furnished, let me address one issue that has been discussed, and make a couple of suggestions.
Generally, the only thing that I have seen cause case head separations has been bumping shoulders back too far several times .
Another issue, that has not been discussed, is that of ejector marks on case heads. His action has a spring plunger type of ejector, and he has not posted that he is getting ejector marks.
What I suggest is that he go to the range with a goodly number of pre-measured charges and, starting with a new case, and only bumping .001 after it reaches its maximum shoulder to head dimension, that he repeatedly load and fire the same case, noting pressure signs, and the feel when seating primers.
As has been mentioned loads that do not loosen primers in the Palma brass may when fired in large primer cases of the same make. The inference that I would make from this is that those of us who shoot warm loads in small primer Lapua cases have greater latitude before pockets loosen, and that for the large primer cases, primer loosening will take place at a lower pressure, which makes pockets loosening a pretty safe pressure indicator as long as no big jumps of charge weight are made while testing.
Finally, useful information about pressure in rimless cases may be obtained by using a blade micrometer to monitor head diameter increases, measured at the bottom of the extractor groove. There are some guidelines out there, but you should probably do some careful testing, considering all signs, rather than blindly following. In the past, I have done something similar when doing a load workup with a belted case, starting low, and measuring as I went, with a regular 1" mic. I put a line across the case head with a permanent marker so that my measurements would all be positioned the same on the case.