The first thing is to recalculate/consider some of what you stated above about the 308. If you are "using a bushing just .001 under a loaded round", then you DO have @ .001 neck tension.....if (big if) the measured OD of the sized neck is truly .337 and the measured OD of the loaded neck is truly .338. Don't concern yourself with the fact that a fired neck OD is .341 because you have no control over the neck chamber OD. Besides, that .004 difference is pretty good.
Here are a few things to at least consider....none of them alone will give you a quick and easy answer.
1. bushing inside diameters often vary from the number that is stamped on the bushing. Sometimes another new bushing with the same stamping (or a friends) will give you a different sized neck OD. Inverting the bushing can often give you a different sized OD. You can see how just these things alone might help you find the tension you want.
2. it is hard to really get into fine tuning neck tension if you are using calipers. A micrometer is needed for really accurate numbers, if that is what you seek.
3. annealing can help keep your neck tension more consistent over repeated firing by keeping spring back within bounds.
4. if you are not going to turn, Lapua brass will usually trump Remington brass for more consistent neck brass thickness. When you seat that bullet, all the neck thickness differences get pushed to the outside surface.....maybe this is causing some of your inconsistent seated neck OD numbers?
5. the hard truth is that people go thru the hassle of turning necks to make neck tension more controllable and more easily adjusted. It is your decision to not turn, but you can't expect the same measurement consistency as people that do turn.
6. FWIW, I agree with an earlier poster who said you should just roll with it. Get this tension issue as close as you can, and then spend your energy on charge weight, seating depth, component tests, etc.
Jack
Thanks for the reply... I'll try to respond to the issues you raised.
Overall, the main reason for my post was my confusion/frustration with NOT getting the resulting neck tension that I should be getting given my bushing selection. You say that I have .001 neck tension because I'm using a bushing that's .001 smaller than a loaded round (.337), but what I'm actually getting is .003 neck tension (.335 neck). I only bring up the dimensions of a fired round so that you know how much I'm stepping down with my chosen bushing.
To your specific points...
1. I've measured the ID of all my bushings for all calibers, they are all good. The .337 bushing is maybe actually a .3365 bushing, but close enough.
2. I've got a good set of calipers that are giving me consistent measurements in all my reloading processes, I do trust the numbers. I wouldn't try to use them to measure thickness of brass case neck walls, but for measuring OD of an entire case neck they work fine.
3. All this brass is annealed every firing, as noted in my OP.
4. I definitely think about this... has me leaning towards using the expander ball on the Remington 280AI brass to push inconsistencies to the outside of the neck. For the more consistent 308 Lapua brass I'm more comfortable fine tuning with bushing selection and no expander.
5. Now that's the heart of the issue.... me trying to avoid neck turning.
6. Already spending energy on the other things and feel that I've got a decent handle on most of them. Neck tension is the forefront issue I'm working on currently.
The overall crux is that my bushings are giving me a resulting size that is roughly .0015- .002 smaller than the bushing size itself.
I haven't seen other people comment on this so was curious if this was common or if I'm getting unusual results. If this is uncommon perhaps I'm doing something wrong with my annealing making the brass too soft, or potentially some other cause?