If it were me, I would have turned/annealed before the neck-down, then annealed after the sizing/first fire forming. Neck forces should become stable as you go.
Initial annealing, either before or after neck turn depends on what it takes to get a good turning mandrel fit.
You can trial & error figure this stuff out with new cases culled by defects.
I should add that I dip anneal, which is a process annealing (mild stress relieving), and NOT a full anneal.
I would also lap neck IDs with J-B on a mop, or polish with a nylon brush wrapped in steel wool, to normalize friction (what you're measuring) before fire forming. Dry coating helps with new brass, but nothing matters with new brass. When tension does matter, and should be expected as consistent, you'll have a nice consistent carbon layer inside necks. The perfect dry lube for your measure.
People don't normally go through all this, but you are, so it's your fault

It's an opportunity to learn a lot.
I'm also sure that good reloading is something done, and not bought.
I could find & form diamonds out of a bag of crap,, it just takes more work. If I need more diamonds, I'll buy more bags of crap. Sometimes your plan leads to this, and should include making the good brass last.