So I'm just trying to realize and learn what I'm using as my base to set my Redding Type S dies for FL resizing.
Ok, now we're directly going to your intent.
This is not a static situation, but dynamic.
If you try to set dies using machined gauges only(static), your final product will be all over the place for the dynamic reasons I've pointed out.
Reloading is always a local endeavor. Books and drawings can only get you so far, and then you take it from there. Metal God pointed out that this is really a local comparison, and that your measuring tool can be anything that works for you. It could a 9mm shell casing and caliper (for you).
What you're comparing here should be shoulder-chamber interference to consistent 1-3thou clearance of it.
So you can fire form your brass in your chamber with little or no resizing of it until the brass will not re-chamber freely. This could take 1-3 firings with only neck sizing. Then you take careful measure of that with a tool of your choosing, and adjust your die to bump back from that ~1thou at a time until just reaching the point where your brass is barely re-chambering freely. You're very near 0 headspace at that point.
Now you can adjust your die for another 1thou, or 2thou (whatever you choose) of bump, measure to confirm it (always with the same tool), and log it. That's your correct bump. You'll confirm your sizing to see it from this day forward. Well, you should,, measure every case,, set your gun next to the bench and chamber every case bumped as you go. Just to be sure.
This video shows how to sneak bullets into just touching lands, but the process is similar to see shoulders just touching chamber.