I think that sometimes we forget that there are vast differences in FL dies, and that the majority of shooters probably still have the least expensive, one piece variety, that size necks excessively, and then make them crooked as they are expanded to a more correct diameter. ( This is even more the case with one piece neck dies.) One of the probable reasons for this situations is that while a shooter can show off a new rifle, scope or stock to his friends, this is not so easily done with a set of outstanding dies, and if one has the expectation of only having to invest a certain amount in dies, he may be hesitant to triple or quadruple that amount for one die. This is particularly the case for those who would seem to be caliber collectors.
Years back, when I started planning my 6PPC, I started by researching and then buying a quality reamer, the thought was, and still is, that I wanted my loading dies to be compatible with each successive barrel, and for once, things went according to plan.
IMO, a well thought out chamber, that takes into account the brass that will be used in it, a FL die that works brass as little as possible, and a seater that captures the full potential of the sized brass, are at the very core of accuracy. One way that friends and I have saved some money in this process is to start with the FL die, and then specify the dimensions of the reamer based on those of a well used, FL sized case, creating the fit we want, without the expense of a custom die. This has worked very well, and has saved a lot of money in the process.
For factory chambers, there is a lot to recommend using a Lee Collet die, in combination with a body die that has been set with the aid of the proper tools to accurately measure shoulder bump. If shoulder bump is properly controlled, and cases are PROPERLY annealed (a lot of bad info out there, even in books) every so often, brass should last many firings.