No need to be sorry.  Everyone does that at one time or another.  
OK, let's look at your predicament.  First, IMO, if the bullet you are using is the 185 Berger Target your 1:12 isn't going to adequately stabilize that bullet.  You need a faster twist.  If you want to shoot 185s at 1K I believe you're going to need something on the order of a 1:9 twist.  Or you could try a !85 Berger hunting bullet that they claim will stabilize at 1:12.
Next, RL17 data is, IMO, somewhat conservative so I feel pretty comfortable staying within published loads.  Where did the 49.2 grain load data come from and is there any room left on that chart to increase the load safely?
Don't be too concerned at MV.  While I suspect a MV around 2800 fps may be a reasonable goal, if your ballistic data validates a maintained velocity of about 1500 fps at 1K you should be satisfied with the results.