It is just one of those things, I could be the only reloader that has two machines that were designed to 'grind to length' a shell holder and or a die. I have never found it necessary to grind the die and or shell holder, all a shell holder can have is a .125" deck height. a reloader should have at least 3 different ways to measure the deck height of a shell holder. You claim you have a head space gage, to some reloaders everything is a head space gage because they believe everything has head space. My cases do not have head space, my chambers have head space so if you take your head space gage and drip it into the die it should protrude from the die .129" if it is a go-gage length head space gage.
.125" protrusion from the die represents the deck height of the shell holder, the .004" represents clearance. Meaning if the die is removed before lowering the ram the case head protruding from the die should be .125" if the case was sized and returned to minimum length, if the case did not get sized because the case did not get shorter from the shoulder to the to the case head the case head protrusion will not be .125".
I believe it is a bad habit for a reloader to instruct another reloader to grind the die and or shell holder. I noticed you are claiming you have a cam over press, I have at least 12 cam over presses, none of them are RCBS presses. I am the only reloader that has RCBS press operation instructions. RCBS claims they made cam over presses, they also claim the cam over press is a bump press, MEANING? If the press is not a cam over press it is not a bump press. So I ask how is it possible to bump a shoulder back? I find it impossible to bump and or move the shoulder back, the best answer I can get is; "CAUSE"! And then there is the other rational; "SYMATICS", it is semantics.
F. Guffey