Multiple schools of thought on this subject. Many apply in their own variant with the person and cartridge being discussed. I make a lot of "wildcat" brass from parent cases. 223s make several of the TCU family, 221 fireball, 300 Whisper, etc. 30-30 makes the Herrett Wildcats, the Ultimate Silhouette cases, Donaldson Wasp, etc. When I make the initial brass for each of these wildcats I make sure they are all made to the same length. After their initial "fireforming" in the chamber of my gun, I trim them again to ensure they are the same exact length. In these situations, that length seems to have most effect on working up consistent handloads.
I shoot a lot of straight wall handgun cartridges. I have put 1000s of 357s down range without ever trimming a brass. Often times a ring of brass would come out of the crimp die with the loaded round. Didn't make a difference to me.....then things got real....mediocre was no long acceptable to me. Yes, I was a good shot, I had decent scores, but then I shot against the best. What differences were there between me and the best? Quite a few really, but one of the main difference, was their consistency in shot to shot accuracy. I didn't think there was a lot to it until I trimmed some Starline 41 Mag brass for the first time. I was astonished at the difference in length and how much easier they loaded after being trimmed to same length. A few thousandths of an inch did not seem important until that crimp die was adjusted properly and perfectly sealed that bullet in place. Made a huge difference in how that revolver load worked for me after that. I have been trimming my straight wall pistol cases for competition ever since.
I have a lot of hunting rifles and they suit me well out to about 300 yards. Many have fired ammo reloaded 5+ times without the brass ever being trimmed. They neck size fine, shoot in the same gun, and keep that minute of squirrel head all day so why spend the extra time? I have a couple that I like for long range. The brass on them gets checked after sizing every time the box is headed for the reloader.
So, I have typed a lot of words, about trimming and the only mention of length had to do with being "the same". The loading books and SAAMI Specs are reference resources. Your gun, dies, press, brass, bullets, etc dictate if you trim, and the length you trim. I have one old 30-30 that I load for that has necks quite a bit shorter than normal. Trim length is to crimp perfect in the cannelure on the bullet that gun likes. She'll shoot into one hole at 100 yards if I do my part, and seating that bullet exactly the same in every RP case is my part in that particular gun.
Your choice on how much time you invest in getting the accuracy out of your gun and ammo.