I shoot 10 different 223 Rem bolt rifles. I am primarily a varmint / predator hunter and recreational range shooter. My goal / standard is 1/2 to 5/8" moa. for my varmint rifles.
Before I get into dies, I believe you will achieve the best results by starting with virgin cases and dedicate them to a specific rifle. Rotate their firing and sizing.
I have been using standard RCBS FL dies for over 50 years with excellent results for my needs. I have nothing bad to say about bushing dies because I have never used them. I like to keep things simple, uncomplicated, and cheap IF I can produce the results I need.
Regarding the issue of neck tension, standard FL dies do tend to oversize the neck. When a standard expander ball is pulled through the neck, it usually over works the neck and creates undesirable drag on the neck that can stretch the neck.
A simple solution is to polish the expander ball with very fine emery cloth. In addition, I have gone one step further. I have four expander assemblies, color coded, sized in .001" increments. Depending on the rifle / brand of case / age of the case I merely substitute the appropriate expander assembly to give me the minimum amount of drag but still uniform the neck.
I do not load to a specific neck tension. I am more focused on a consistent neck tension, which for me, produces the results I desire on target.