I load my Cooper M38 20VT with 32gr NBT's loaded .005" off the lands, and I also have the "loaded round ejection issue". But as I never shoot at any range, usually out in the open desert among the junipers, other folks waiting is not an issue, but a real PITA out in the field when you want to stop and clean and you've got that dang loaded round in there.
Personally, I want accuracy above all else, and this issue pretty much does not bother me enough to seat bullets deeper to satisfy the ejection problem. The answer: Don't chamber a round unless you intend to fire it. Problem solved. (Yeah, I know, I'll still be faced with it now and then too.)
I'll let the rifle decide where to seat the bullets and deal with the short ejection port now and then. When the rifle will shoot like below, would you want to ruin the accuracy by seating deeper just to eject a loaded round now and then? Not me.
One thing for certain.....these rifles shoot, and the 20VT shoots like it was designed for BR, not rats.....but I'll take it in a M38 Cooper just the same and deal with it.