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I have quit my job.

matthias

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After long and careful consideration I have quit my gunsmithing job. Due to changes in the ownership of the shop, continued issues with home life and overall benefits of being a gunsmith deminishing.

It has gotten harder and harder to go into work and fix grandpa's 22, then turn around and fix trap shotguns for highschool kids. I have been a general gunsmith for 5 years and fixed/worked on somewhere in the neighborhood of 6000 firearms over that time . Barreled 350+ rifles etc.

I just don't see how to keep going and have the same job satisfaction and interest in what I do. I can not continue doing the job for the general public if I am not striving for better results on every job.

I am starting a new chapter of being a hobby 'smith for me and me alone. It's a good thing my wife has a great job and I can become a stay at home dad for my 4 kids 5-9 years old.

Just had to get this out. Thanks for reading.
 
You only live once , and doing things that are distasteful is not good. Its great your wife has a good job and you can make that change . God bless your change in path. Bruce
 
Recently divorced and presently in a transition stage I was considering getting my license and doing work on the side but I have heard enough of these stories to make me question my thinking. Is making 5-10k a year extra worth the headaches??? I think you are probably on a better path and one I will continue down myself. Thanks for sharing and I wish you the best.
 
I quit a 25 year career that I had worked up to the Management level. My BP was through the roof, I was grouchy and typically had one or two to many to get a nights sleep. Put everything I had in a small gun shop. I don't make squat, wife has a good job, we eat well, sleep well and love one another.
Enjoy your kids, recenter yourself and have fun sir!
 
Time with the young'uns will never be regretted. Even on the hair tearing days. My son is doing the same thing.
Enjoy, make it fun.
 
After long and careful consideration I have quit my gunsmithing job. Due to changes in the ownership of the shop, continued issues with home life and overall benefits of being a gunsmith deminishing.

It has gotten harder and harder to go into work and fix grandpa's 22, then turn around and fix trap shotguns for highschool kids. I have been a general gunsmith for 5 years and fixed/worked on somewhere in the neighborhood of 6000 firearms over that time . Barreled 350+ rifles etc.

I just don't see how to keep going and have the same job satisfaction and interest in what I do. I can not continue doing the job for the general public if I am not striving for better results on every job.

I am starting a new chapter of being a hobby 'smith for me and me alone. It's a good thing my wife has a great job and I can become a stay at home dad for my 4 kids 5-9 years old.

Just had to get this out. Thanks for reading.

Speaking only for myself, I have never been happier in my 73 years than when I stepped away from a teaching job 50 years ago. I loved the kids but hated the adults that supervised me. It was the best thing for me I ever did. Good luck to you, don't worry over the "might have been". You're following your dream. Carry on!
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After 40 years of being on the oceans and being gone most of the time I was completely fed up.It was great at one time,but increasing company management and regulations turned a
great job into a bunch of "El Toro Caca".Got a small shop by my house and do what I want.Now take them kids out and shoot something,,safely.
 
Congratulations! Spending more time with your kids is never a bad decision and I would wager that you look back on this as the best decision you ever made for yourself and your family.
 
I met an interesting lady the other day who rides motorcycles like me. We got to talking and she said she had been a widow for 12 years. I said “how can that be — you’re still young!”. She said her husband, a high pressure labor law attorney, dropped dead from a heart attack at age 51.

That made me think ... I worked as a litigation attorney for a decade before changing careers. Where would I be if I stayed in that job, working 12 hrs/day 29 days a month? One thing’s for sure, this Forum would not exist...
 
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I met an interesting lady the other day who rides motorcycles like me. We got to talking and she said she had been a widow for 12 years. I said “how can that be — you’re still young!”. She said her husband, a high pressure labor attorney, dropped dead from a heart attack at age 51.

That made me think ... I worked as a litigation attorney for a decade before changing careers. Where would I be if I stayed in that job, working 12 hrs/day 29 days a month? One thing’s for sure, this Forum would not exist...

Hard to argue that reducing stress isn't good for you. And everybody knows riding a motorcycle is excellent therapy.
 
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I've been there and chased greener pastures for a few years. Yes, grandpa's old shotgun will drive you crazy and broke. I'm back doing what I love but no more $75 shotguns! No more wasting time hunting parts and not getting paid for those hours. I work on what I want to work on and am behind already. Oh, no more years behind on junk! If I can't get it done in a few weeks...I don't need it in my shop at that time.

Step away, enjoy the kids. You may want to get back into it later, like I did. Don't sell your stuff! I was shocked at some of the new prices for a few things that I did sell!

New attitude, new rules...and I'm on pace to have my best year ever! I never got completely out of it but tried to sell real estate and build flags and tuners on the side. In realty, both suffered and I had to decide what I wanted to do. My other job is farming and helping my dad whenever he needs me. I stay busy but I will make time for him for as long as he's still around. Some may remember a few years ago, when I nearly lost him, unexpectedly. I'll never be prepared for that day but I won't be in the same shape as I was then, when I could least afford it.

Keep your chin up, walk away for a bit and re-evaluate if the time comes. Spend time with your family and do what really matters in life.
 
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Keep your chin up, walk away for a bit and re-evaluate if the time comes. Spend time with your family and do what really matters in life.[/QUOTE]
This man knows more than just rifles!
Lost my dad earlier this year, go hug yours if you can.
Quit my job to be a stay at home dad little over a year ago, my wallet is still mad but life is to short for a bad job.
Matthias good luck and enjoy it!
 
Congrats on your decision,dead end jobs will eat you up and beat you down mentally and physically... I quit many great jobs through the years,actually they were not great jobs they just paid very well.

Enjoy your new freedom.
 

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